Hi I’m 15 and I don’t know what to do,
my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and then the other night he went out with his friends and got drunk the next night he told me he danced with another girl and was going to give her his number but he didn’t because he couldn’t find his phone, then about half hour later he tells me that he kissed this girl too, I told him to take me home I was upset and I just couldn’t look at him anymore, as I went to get out the car he asked me what was wrong as if he hadn’t done anything! later that night he text me saying that he only danced with her and kissed her he didn’t know what he was doing, I rang him and he admitted it again. the next day he picked me up in the morning and we didn’t talk at all then a few hours past and he came over to me to try and talk and I told him that I was angry and didn’t understand how he could do it, he then turns round and said he didn’t kiss her he only told me to see my reaction I argued a bit with him saying people don’t tell people that just to get a reaction and he said to me again I only danced with her, I felt really confused and I didn’t understand why he was lying to me so I told him I wasn’t ready to talk yet and I would talk 2 him when we got back to his house, when we got there he was trying to hug me and kiss me like normal and I kept pushing him away and then I said to him that I didn’t understand why he was lying to me and the he said to me that basically I was over reacting and I shouldn’t let it get to me. Later I asked him how he would feel if it was me who told him I kissed someone and he said he wouldn’t care he said he doesn’t think a kiss means anything
I don’t know what to do he doesn’t seem to know what he done wrong, I don’t know if I want to be with him anymore there are loads of reasons in my mind why I shouldn’t be with him and only a few for why I should but I just cant seem to tell myself what to do!!! I need help :(
Hi i just found out today my bofriend cheated on me too. Alot differnet then what happened to you. 6 months too of dating.i hung out with him befor i had to go home. He told me he wouldnt do anything stupid. I found out from his cousin g.f. he was going with a friend to a girls house. I was freaking out at 2;30 in the morning trying to get ahold of him. HE did answer i texted him " please dont cheat babe i love you and know u will not do this to me. I miss u." the next day i asked if he did. he said no. i bleived in him. Then he said we need a break. I was freaking out again why do we neeed one? HE said" sometime to get away from u bitchey attitude.!" i started to cry. forthe next to day i told him iwas going to change and not be a bitch. I found out in school today in 4th hour with his own word. I did some though with a greenvill girl. I couldnt help my self and left the room. He goes to a different school. I dont see him much. And i still miss him. HE sadi he would never cheat but he did. I love him but cant believe he put me threw this state of mind when i thought i did something wrong when it was actuly him. he say he loves me and does want to be on a break. He wants to be with me. I want to forgive him. Idk if i can. i am a forgiver not a forgetter. If you love him and if he says he loves you back give it a shot. Bec mine had sex with her and didnt remember. I want to forget this too. soo if a lil kiss makes you feel bad. try sex bec. it hurt more when he lost his virgents to me. Love is a powerful word. saying it means it. right good luck and learn from what my guy did to me.
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