I am married for four months now. My courtship period lasted for 6 months. It is a perfect arrange marriage. All looked perfect in the starting of our courtship period, but then I started feeling that my fiancee does not love me. I felt she gave more time to others than to me. With time this feeling deepened, and after marriage it became worse. I wanted a married life with lot of intimacy, but she is opposite to this. My feeling that she does not love me increased even more and reached higher levels. I don't see any excitement in her for myself, and this leads to self-frustration. I feel myself as a dummy person to fill the position of "husband" in her life. I try talking to her and give her ample time, but her reactions are on the opposite side. She dont talk much and at times I felt as if she is hiding things from me. Physical relationship wise, it is even worse. When I try to push for things, she says she is not mentally prepared for all this. We never made love in 4 months of our marriage, not even on our honeymoon. With all this I feel defeated and rejected.
We had a talk about all this, she listens and we have a hot discussion. Things remain the same. Please guide me how do ignite fire in our low love relationship. I have tried everything, helping her in household gifts, taking her out on dates, giving gifts, and talking every damn thing on this earth with her. Please help me what to do to make her love me.
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