dear mam/sir
i am so mish mash in life. i am very lazy and and nt planned .
i feel tired always.i can study, i fell my mind is blocked. i cant remember. i feel my mind is full and i feeling heavy.
i have been very active before. i am married 5 years and one one 3 years
i get up very late , no mood for huose job...
pls help me
your blog doesnt really say much about YOU.
are you a drinker?
are you a drugger?
are you on any meds?
how old are you?
do you have any physical health conditions?
bi-polar?
depression?
are you over weight? a smoker?
the list goes on and on...
since i dont' know much, why don't you consider going to a doctor first to see if it's physical.
if it isn't then I would suggest a counselor. if you can't afford one you can always contact churches to see who offers counseling for free or they can even direct you.
maybe you could get support in an AA room or an Al- anon room. You can find the meetings on-line. They're confidential and free.
good luck!
dear mam/
thank you so much for your immediat ereply.
i am sorry for giving less details.
I am 30 years old, 5 years married an dhaving one 3 years 4 months son. I have got married to indian andi am iranian. just 1 year diffrence is between us. i am not usin any drugs, no med, no drug , no drink, no smoke. My drink is only milk.
i hv been a very happy fast girl, 8 years i hv been teacher, so happy, but now i am dull, no mood of doing anything. i cant remeber my words, i feel i cant learn, i was working with my husband in samecompny, we hd so much bad times, i felt i was just used by company and he was always saying i am waste....
i dont know y nw i am so much dull. i read alot. i feel shy to talk, to go shopping, i feel without him i cant do anything nw, while i was a very self dependant girl.
i dont hv any physical problem.
pls help me hw i can make myself that full energy girl.
please.
i am lazy, i cant manage the things, these r teh sentences he is telling me, an di see that he is right also.
how i can be a good housewife.
please help me.
thank u & God bless you.
goli
when did you start feeling this depress ? you sound you are depress unconsiosly .I think you are very lonely and not many friends of your wave lenght.And you are more outside kind of girl and trying to adjust home life so you are struggling with the adjustment.Try and enjoy your son .Try and make some play date of his age group he will get his age group company and you will get that childs mom company and try and involve yourself in some volunteer works .
Or you have thyroid/postmartum depression you need to see a doc. since its affecting day to day life
take care