Relations with wife.

Hi ,

I am married since last 12 years and have one daughter also . At the time of marriage ,I was a lower middle class guy........and always wanted to marry with the girls who will co-operate and will understand the questions ,reality of middle class peoples . So it's better to adjust in our family....

I think that was my mistake .I married with her who was from very poor family .I though , I will give her everything which he never expected in her life...

Now I reached to a Upper middle class society and she still wanted to leave in her old types / class of life .She do not want to change . My earlier 2 years of married life was OK Ok but after that she started refusing me .She is not getting fun in to that...I tried all the options , talk to her but in vain .

Finally ,I met a counceller and explain them my problems.....they wanted to meet my wife also to understand the complete pictures....but she is not ready for it .

I think ,I am standing bank of the river and started loosing the confidence in me...I have a lot of desire about sex but not got completed from my wife....tried to convience her but no response . We were having a big fight with each day or any of the reason .

I think ,we are reached to the leval of seprattions ,my I love my dauther too too much which is stopping me for any types of decisions .

What do I do ? Pl advise.