Am i being a jealous girlfriend? We have been together for almost 5 years. He is mentally and verbally abusive. He calls me fat, obese. I did gain 10 lbs since we have been together. So has he. But he recently lost alot of weight cause he is sick. He goes out with his friends and tells me he talks to girls for his friend cause his friend is shy. The other night he came home drunk went to the bathroom and then left with his friend in his friends truck. I get a call on my cell phone and its him and i can hear his friend in the background. They said they are gonna be at the exxon station in 1 minute. I asked who he thought this was and he said a girls name which isnt mine and his friend said..."u called (my name)" then the phone hung up. Then five minutes later he comes home and his friend is so drunk he drives on the lawn and honks the horn real loud...now i work in the morning and get up at 4am and it was 3am when he got home...so i was a grouch....He grabbed my cell phone and said he was going to call his friend and tell him what an asshole he was for honking the horn...he walks out the house and comes back in. Then not even a minute later...the cell rings and he looks at it..i asked him who that was...he said hi friend the one he just called...and i hear this girls voice on the other end. he walks out the front door....boy was i boiling now....we argued all morning till went to work well until he passed out 10 mins before i left....and that was that....Did i over react?