Hi Shannon -
Thank you for the advice. I tend to agree with you about him not cheating. I really don't have any reason to think he is and when we talk about it he gets upset and makes a valid point - that had he NOT told me he had cheated, and lied to me, I would trust him more. Which, in a twisted way is kind of true. I went home for the holiday weekend and that put things into perspective for me, and I feel better about things. He doesn't believe me that most of the time its not him I don't trust, its this one girl in particular. She will do ANYTHING and I do mean ANYTHING to get his attention. We used to be friends and we had a falling out when she heard we were dating, and has since been non-stop texting and IMing him. The texts are stupid one word responses but she is relentless. I'm almost tempted to wave the proverbial white flag and tell her she wins. I can't keep up with her nonsense anymore and I am just too tired with school and work and everything else.
Thank you for your reply!