Hi I am looking for advice with relation to my wife and would like some advice on the best ways to deal with the predicament I find myself in. My wife is an extreamly beautiful woman who is very inscure. This intrudes on our everyday life, I am not allowed to watch TV, due to the S*** as my wife puts it that is always shown, unless she has vetted whats on when the adverts come on they have to be turned off untill the programme comes back on. I agreed with this as I am obviously sensitive towards her feelings. However I feel the situation has deteriated over time. This weekend I was trying to get the football scores while an advert was on, digital TV keeps the TV screen on suddenly I received a barrage of " did you enjoy that, seeing her fake tits" I told her I was looking for the football page for the results the argument was continued. My wife used to be a singer at local bars and I used to do her sound. While doing this she used to get feed up of people judging her as she was on stage lip reading women calling her a slapper. she also labelled the women on TV this way, I reminded her of how she hated bitchy women doing the same to her ( in a calm way) this just upset her which I felt guilty for, but I felt she needed to see it that way. I love my wife very much but the whole situation is very difficult and Im running out of patients, she would say goodbye if I push it to hard but I feel I need to change the way she veiws things as I feel she will never be happy therefore neither will I.
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