I am also soo glad I found this site. I don't know where to begin! I too have fallen for a married man and I am afraid I have let it go on far too long. There is always some reason why he has not left her yet. He says all his reasons for not leaving are financial, but I would never let money get in the way of the one I love! I do not know what to do! They have no children together, she has a teenage daughter from a previous marriage but he has been around for most of the child's life.
They own 2 houses together and for the past year his excuses have gone to waiting for the tenants of the other house to vacate to waiting for her to move there. I completley understand that divorce/seperation is not an easy task however, I have been waiting for either for over the past year!! Sometimes I think that if he really loved me and wanted to have a life with me than we would be there already!
I just don't know what to do anymore! I love him so much but I want the life I deserve! I am normally a very happy person, but I am on the verge of tears all the time now! It is not just the sistuation I have put myself in that upsets me but what I have done to another woman! I have never felt like I was a bad person up until now!
