I have the same situation and I have not figureed out what to do.I love him so much and I think he loves me, but the truth is that he told me he was not happy with his marriage and he was seprated with his wife and they were going through a device at the very beginning I knew him. But right now he told me he would go back to his family because he thought we only have happy times in the first months,after that he has to come back to his wife. I don't know why he said in this way and what he is thinking about.He called me almost everyday.....He is the type that I have been looking for years, he spoke so right words to my heart.His wife also knew the thing between us and asked him if he really loves me and is going to live with me, what he answered is like I said,he would come back to her after months with me......I can not see the future between us, but he used to describe a so beautiful life I am hoping for for both of us..........