For a while now i've been thinking of splitting with my girlfriend of nine years. Its got to a point where i've thought harming myself just to stop the pain. Deep down i want to be with her but there is nagging thought i could be with someone else or somewhere else. In every relationship i've had when i'm in one i want out and when i'm out of one i want in is this a dissorder or am i messed up in the head. We finally broke up and i feel numb like i have no direction. Is this normal for a break up or have i made the worst mistake of my life.
Breaking up to someone is normal. Thinking that you're in a mess right now would probably be a natural feeling too because your nagging thoughts and your wanting to be with her combat each other. But, splitting with your girlfriend of nine years would be difficult with an unreasonable reason. It would really cause you pain and heartaches due to your clouded conscience and longing to be with her. It would be unhealthy. However, if you need a space, then let it be. Just tell her what you want and make her understand. That's the best way to unease your pain and worries. After some time, you will realize to do something better. Then, if you decide later on, you would not resent and would not make a worst mistake in your life.
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