Marital problems

my husband and i have an affair .i forgave him but he hasnt forgiven me. he has had two affairs and i now think he is haveing another, he and the one involved deny it but all the signs and actions say otherwise. i love him to bits yet he says he doesnt love me or want to be with me wants a flat of his own and is not leaving me for another woman. he is 68 and i am 65. he tells me nothing is going on yet he has been accused of the affair from his place of work and the woman concerned was put out of the workplace. i am devistated dont want to lose him yet i feel i have already and dont know what to do for the best. if i try to talk to him he flies in a rageplease help me.

I am sorry, but if he does not want to stay, there is not much you can do.