Re: Relation

Hello, Thanks for this website which permit me to say what I have on my heart. It's been two years that I date a man, we have been living together for 8 months before I move to another country since we kept in touch now 1 and half year by Internet and telephone calls. when I lived with him during 8 months, my life changed. he started to control my friendship with other boys. no one could call me and he used to be arrogant with me. sometimes when I come back home he used to scold my hand hardly asking if I was with someone else. he insults me almost everyday.

I was broken hearted from a previous relation at this time, I was vulnerable so I had no choice but just to suffer physically and psychology, i found it better not to suffer from feelings and i hold with this relation. once when we were having relations, I asked him I was not feeling comfortable to stop but he continued until he found out that I started to cry then he left me. he likes anal sex and I don't feel comfortable about it. I feel that its a way of dominating. My father used to be violent at home but never slapped me or any members of my family. I am wondering if its not for this reason that I got attracted to this man. what I would like to know about these points that I described if a guy can change?since we separated 1 and half year.

he change his tone on the phone. it seems like he became more calm. I felt in love with this guy. we started to talk about future and he asked me to get introduced to his family but not feel ready to get engaged. Can I trust him?id he really changed? feel confused. Thinking how I lived my relation with him for 8 months. I tried to start a new relation but he is always in my heart and I don't feel I can handle with a new relation.

He is ruining my life in every point. I feel sometimes depressed by that. Should I hold on to this relation in hope that he will really change? months ago he said to me that we went out with another girl and I just discovered that he might still be in touch with her. I ended the relation yesterday. Am I right? feel confused...