hi ladies..i too was in love with a married man.19 years ago..he had a son..i had a daughter she was 2 at the time....i ended up pregnant..we had a son..he did leave hes wife for us..we are still togther today..our son is 15 now..my daughter is 20 and his son was 31..just recently passed away..sometimes i ask myself if maybe me being pregnant was the only reason he left his wife..if that were the case i wouldnt be here today..he told me i was never the fault for his marriage falling apart..little did i know he was just a whore dog..there was other women before me..i just happen to be the one ending up pregnant and ending up with him..he has never cheated on me..this i know..people do change..sometimes men do leave their other half..you just need to follow your heart..know what you want and how to get/keep it..keep in mind someday there may be a lady typing about being in love with our hubbys..and we not know it..Gracie