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reply Re: Orgasm problems , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 14 Nov 2007 06:09
plain Orgasm problems , ****** , 13 Nov 2007 23:22
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Orgasm problems
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Date: Tue, 13 Nov 2007 23:22:12 +0100
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Hello I'm 21 years old and I have never had an organsm, or at least not that I know. I used to think I did until I talked to my boyfriend and he described what a real orgasm is like. In the past, when I masturbated I would get a really good feeling on my genitals and after a minute or two I would start having contractions. They were not too strong, but I felt really good during and afterwards. I thought I was having an orgasm. But my boyfriend who has had other sexual partners described to me an orgasm as strong body contractions, a suddent hot rush, face blushing, and a secretion of liquids, he also said that it only last seconds and once it's over a girl can't have intercourse right away. We have been having sex for 5 months and I have never got an orgasm with him even if we try different possitions. Have I ever had an orgasm based on what I told you? And if not, is there anything wrong with me? My interest in masturbation decreased to zero after my boyfriend brought up the orgasm subject and I realized that I had never had one. I've been thinking ever since that there is something wrong with me and now I don't even enjoy sex as much because I'm thinkking about "why isn't it happening?" What can I do? Should I visist a doctor? Please reply.
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From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Wed, 14 Nov 2007 06:09:41 +0100
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People are different. I think you experienced an orgasm when you masturbated. Women usually do not get an orgasm during intercourse, as clitoris is not stimulated in the right way. Ask your boyfriend to caress you before intercourse or do it yourself afterwards.




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