My boyfriend of three months just broke up with me because he says he has no romantic feelings towards me. He tells me on a daily basis that he has never been happier, that I make him so happy. that I am the nicest, kindest person he has ever met and that I help him in ways I don't even know.
He is 44yrs old, never married. Has had a total time of three years in a relationship...total...with three women. Was engaged once, he called it off. Wanted to marry another girl but said she had issues.
His sister is mentally ill and his brother killed himself. He has suffered from severe depression. He says that he has been hurt really badly emotionally on several occasions in reltionships and is unhappily comfortable with being alone and lonely. It is all he has known. He brought me to his family twice even though he has not brought anyone home in five years. How can he say he misses me and that I am so wonderful but say that he does not have romantic feelings for me.