I have been in a relationship for 10 years and one year ago I found out that my partner had an affair that resulted in a child. This has changed my life completely. He has said that he is not involved with this woman anymore but I know for a fact that he still send her emails that are quite sexual in nature. I am unable to accept that child and he continues to deny being involved with this woman. I bought a phone for him with the bills coming out of my account. Do you think it is right that he uses this call this woman when I am paying the bills? I have high blood pressure which seems to have become worst because I am unhappy. I have been having chest pains because I worry a lot. I have a 5 year old who loves his father dearly. Where do I go from here?