Marital problem

My husband says he is psychologically ill. He is on Marijuana and Kat (alerting drug). I understand he is not in a normal behavior. He claims i am the reason he is having all these drugs. He doesn't want to live with me anymore. He prefers masturbation to sex. We don't have children due to varicocele. We don't live in our mother country, so i don't know what to do. I can't belive that i can live with out him and i don't want a divorce. I wish i can help him. One of his suggestions is for me to return to our mother country until he feels better and we can be like friends. I don't know if that's a good idea since he is subject to many work stresses plus the drugs. He needs a marital break and sometimes he says he wants a divorce.

Do not divorce yet, but leave him. Let him know where he can reach you. Do not contact him. If he still has feelings for you, he will phone, sooner or later.