My wife has all the symptoms of a sociopath

I need help for my children and self, my wife has all the symptoms of sociopath, and a long history within her family. I am afraid for the well being of my children and self she has recently cleaned us out financially took offf with the kids age 3 had me falsely arrested, all charges have been dropped and they are home. Now she stole 30 grand our life savings and although she has come back home she shows no remorse or concern for the financial burden she has created she did this while I was trying to buy a new home don't know where the money went she doesn't use drugs:

Constant lying and has now begun to create imaginary friends, etc., to pull off her actions, I have to be careful not to let her know i am looking into this i am afraid at what she might due to the children or myself she seems to be a good mm but sometimes I just dont know. Can you help me find help she has benn in treatment in the past but has always manipulated her way out of treatment. She wont go on her own and I am afraid something bad will happen if I approach her with help. I have to work since we4 are now destitute, I am beginning to be afraid to leave my children home alone with her I dont know what she will due next.

PLEASE HELP

The general advice when getting involved with a sociopath is "run as fast as you can". Don't fight, they always win. Don't continue associating with them, they will just cause more harm.

I can understand that this advice is not the best help you can get, it is not easy to get rid of involvement with someone when you have children together. And in your case the behaviour of this sociopath is so erratic that you may be able to get someone else to understand your side of the story.

I would recommend that you go to a lawyer and get help on what your options are. She may threaten to harm your children, in order to get her way, but is it really probably that she will carry out such threats? Only you can give a prognosis about this.