I have been with someone for almost 9 months and through out our relantionship he was using cocaine. I knew he had battled with drug addiction in the past but when we had met he told me he no longer used. 7 months later he confessed that he was using while we were together. All the signs were there, no money, irritable, losing alot of weight. He finally broke down and decided to get his life together. He wanted help he wanted to quit for good or so I thought. He was doing well for about 2 months and I think he has relapsed again. This time he seems too far gone, and theres no positivity there at all. His ex-gf just gave birth to a child and he seems to not be too accepting of the whole situation. It has gotten out of hand and there seems to be no hope left. He doesnt think he has problem now.
He decided to move in with a family member, who also uses drugs and has no job. I feel like this is the worst decision ever made. Ive tried to help him time and time again but he pushes me away when hes like this. Ive run out of options and I dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to see someone I love fall to pieces.