i know how you feel the man i am with did divorce his wife at least that what he says we have been together now for 5 years i lost my marriage to this affair that grew into a nightmare he lies and cheaats on me all the time he just bought a harley and every weekend he is gone,,i don't know if he still sees his wife but they talk all the time,,and they like to play games with my head i know he puts me down around her and her friends i believe he is also messing around with other women,,he keeps saying i need to go to work,,he has been supporting me all this time and truthfully i can't go to work i spend all my time obsessed with this problem i have one friend she sees the way he is ,,its so bad i thought i wouldn't make it,,but i would like to talk to you we could probabaly help each other alot,,the bottom line is we need to cut them out of our lives i haven't called him in about 3 days and i don't want to this is a positive step in my life,,he has destroyed i was very confident and self reliant when i met him and he spent alot of money on me and was very charming once he knew he had me ,,then it all changed help is on the way call me at 209 513 5028 maybe we can get rid of these dogs,,my name is heather..or e-mail me at dalyh@comcast.net