hi,
i am from Karnataka (India),i am having few problems with my hubby, he never understands me nor my feelings & very careless about me & my son, least bothered on both of us, he dosent like even my family memebers, he expects me to do & take care of him & his realtives.
we both are working to maintain our family financially, he spends money too much & i have to take care of the family things i will also be too tired after my work i too need support i dont expect him to buy me gifts i just expect him to sit beside me hold my hands & talk to me & take care of me.
coming to sexual matter he comes near me when ever he is intrested or having a feeling of it. i support him tatally in that matter even if i am tired or not intrested at that moment.
i am going down day by day in my health here doctor has told to take bed rest for at least a month to pick up my health, & i am tired of thinking what to do ?? if i tell some thing he gets angry & scolds me & tell me to leave him alone not to stay with him any more. please help me out what to do i am totally confused.
i really love him a lot i want to stay with him but he never understands this or cares for this.
kindly help me out in this issue i am tired of running life in this way.
Your husband will probably not change. If you want to stay with him, you can try to ignore his impolite comments. Try to get support from friends and family members, when your husband does not give you what you need from him.