Re: im in love with a married man

Okay I have minutes before the site goes down for maintnance.... Love and I are doing good. I just hit a super scary time tho.. Im 4 days late for my period!! If Im pregnant, there's gonna be alot of stuff happen.. I was planning not to tell him if I was just to save him the worry and just wait untill he noticed but he alreay knows im late cause I cant lie to him for anything. So he's been worried and asking every day if I started, I almost want to tell him I did just so it would be a secret if I was but once he found out it would be a big fight and probably lead to speculation that it isnt his, just out of confusion and frustraition. So basically if I am, he'll know as soon as I know. Im scared cause I know he'll tell his wife and that's going to make me sad because that means their split would be because of me in her eyes and he promised me that he would never leave her for me that it would be because of their problems. I think it would be best if he kept it a secret, started the divorce as soon as we find out if it's positive and then once Im towards the end we could pretend that I just told him that I kept it a secret that way the divorce is close to the end and they will have already settled everything and it doesn't look like he left her for me that I was just a hook up from one drunken night or something and he decides after finding out that he wants to be with me. It happens... I've seen it happen (IN REAL LIFE)not just the movies. But I know he'll act impulsively and stupidly tell her right away. You know having a girlfriend in another city is one thing but having another family is completely different. It wont be able to be a secret forever because he cant turn his back on his blood so we would just have to figure out the best way to bring it out. anyway.. I'll keep you posted and let you know if I am or not.. ttyl