How can you stop distressing sexual addiction, like for having sex in ways your partner does not like?
In my case, I sometimes want my partner to urinate on me during sex, this is causing my partner and myself a large amount of distress and I want to stop these urges...
It may be helpful for you just to imagine that she urinates on you while having sex. It is not necessary to do it; fantasy is often more satisfying than carrying it out in reality, and certainly much safer. In that way, you can get that special excitement which this gives you without bothering her with something that may upset her and cause her to leave you.