When a child has a weight problem, it is also the parent's problem. A
child cannot be expected to take responsibility for something as
complicated as food and diet. The food you eat contains too much fat and
isn't even wholesome for slim adults. The whole family needs to improve
their eating habits. Furthermore, as children shouldn't be asked to eat
different food from their parents, my suggestions are: replace the milk
chocolate drink by a good herb tea; eliminate the butter, cheese, sausages
and white bread and replace them by cottage cheese, vegetables, lean meat
and wholemeal bread.
As John eats during the night you should ensure that there is no fattening
food whatever in the home, but only wholesome food such as a large bowl of
fresh fruit. However, if he is not hungry when he goes to bed he will
certainly sleep well all night.